Five things we should avoid to lead a happy Life.
There are five different things we should Crossed in
your life. They are
- Ego
- Blame
- Gossip
- Angry
- Negativity
Being overly egoistic:
Worldliness saps our divine equalities and inflates
our ego, whose tell-tale sign is self-centredness. The individuals is
ever-complaining that the world does not devote itself to making you happy -
George Bernard Show. Once ego is no very large part of the world. The man who
can figure out his thoughts and excepts upon something go beyond self confined
or certain peace in the ordinary troubles of life which is impossible to the
pure egoist. An unspiritual life give greater stress to the ego. Ego is the
Most Dangerous one we all should try to avoid now a days, It is because most
difficult things to follow in between the surroundings. If we have Egoistic
Character, we don’t think to be good and to be good to others
Blame :
Self pity and self absorption often lead to blame of
others or oneself. We should drop blame from our thought and speech. Swamiji
says “Our thoughts , our words and actions are the gear threads of the net
which we throw round ourselves, for good or for bad. Once we set in shift a
certain power, we have to take the full penalty of it. These results conditions
the life of man. Thus he moulds his own life. Man is not hop by any other laws
anticipating those which he makes for himself. We create our own fate.
The Individual habit of laying blame on others
deprives us of a spiritual perspective and the ability to forgive. It stifles
our ability to love and feel compassion for others. If we accept and forgive
others, We are freed from the blaming habit. For if you forgive mean their
trespasses, your heavenly father also will forgive you. But if you don’t
forgive men their infringes, neither will your father forgive your infringes.
Turning our thoughts to God relieves our heart of
the Oppressive spiritual, mental and emotional guilt of an unforgiving spirit.
We receive inspiration to reject selfish tendencies and follow the higher
spirituals and moral techniques of the holy ones.
Gossip
We all very well know, Gossip is the danger one, if
we speak about one person in the surrounding after leaving they will gossip
about us. Some people think if they share something to other what is bother
them, they will be get some mind relief but actually figuring out its not like
that and giving heavy trouble . Yet it is not even close to the truth.
Angry :
Angry, This is the similar one we should try to
avoid to lead a Happiest Life. All the one facing irritate situation in their
life. Most of them not know what are they doing during livid. How to control
angry is the difficult task now a days, due to these all of them trying to
divert their mind to other things or activities such as yoga, meditation,
exercise something like that to reduce the angry behavior. When you annoyed in
something you get stressed and more emotional.
Those who they lacked control of their angry
feelings and expressed their anger outwardly. Anger does not solve anything. It
builds nil, but it can tear down everything. In fact when someone stops getting
angry on you, it is clear that you have lost your Importance from their life.
Angry: “to be mad”, “to be irritated”, “to be
furious”, “I am burned up”
Negative Thinking
If you were in the critical
situation, you would probably do the same thing. This is hard for people to understand since they visualize
they will always stay the same. Nothing happens until you move. When you feel
hard , your mind also not work in a appropriate way certainly I felt it more because
my mind not work in a proper manner when I get tensed or worried and always
think negativity. When I take the things or entire surrounding whatever may be
decided to have negative thought, it is not lead a happy life as your wish. So
whenever you are going to take a decision whether you are in good or bad
conditions you should think before you act.
